Stuffed Animals Have No Age
When people think of stuffed animals, they probably think of teddy bears cuddled tightly with affection by toddlers. Contrary to the popular belief, stuffed animals aren’t just meant for children, but for adolescents and adults too.
For children, these stuffed animals are used as a transitional object.
It’s evident the true purpose of this toy: stuffed animals are the physical embodiment of an imaginary friend and parent. It smooths the gaps of a mother’s absence, and on top of that, helps with their development of a healthy mind: empathy, creativity, responsibility, and communication. I bet many can recall memories of moving around their toys, bobbing their heads and pursing their lips as they speak for them.
While the average age to give up a childhood companion is 11 years old, it’s not uncommon for anyone older than that to still hold on to them. In a survey in 2017 of 2,000 adults, about 40% still had their stuffed animals. Contrary to what one may think, it’s completely healthy to still hold these furry companions. They are found to reduce loneliness, anxiety, help deal with stress and emotions, dampen psychological trauma, and rejection. Since the main purpose of them is to replace the absences of a mother, it’s no wonder they evoke a sense of peace, security, and comfort.
Of course, one doesn’t need to have trauma or sleep problems as an excuse to keep them. Humans are sentimental beings. We hoard objects that we deem as a part of us and take pride in that. We keep anything that resembles our younger self because childhood memories evokes a sense of happiness and security. I know I can attest to that. Whether my reasons are from low confidence, trauma, or loneliness, I will always keep a few in my bed, because I simply like them.
You can ask my brother.
